Now I have been a member of a dating site for two days, and I feel a bit confused. I have had a whole bunch of visits (cool) some of them have been back twice even (?), so I must make a nice first impression.
Then they have this functionality called “flirt”;What do I do with them? I mean, either they just say “flirt” or “you, I want to know more about”. If they want to get in touch with me, then why don’t they send me a message? Am I supposed to send them a message? Or should I send a flirt back if they seem to be ok? What is the point of the whole functionality?
There are six messages in my inbox, I don’t know if that is good or bad after two days? A couple of them is a bit weird, do I have to answer them? It feels a bit rude to just delete them. I mean, one of them tells me that my profile shows how nice and loving I am. Either that dude reads what he wants or I have failed completely in my introduction.
One of them just points out that we are the same age, and a quick question on how I’m doing today? Where is the effort? Or am I asking too much here? Another one just plainly asked how I am doing.
I have received one message where the guy seem to have read my profile, point out why he’s interested in it and ask to know more about me. He will be getting a message back, trouble being that it seems easier to write the blog then write about me to one specific person. I have decided to have it done before I go to bed tonight.